There are three ways of earning recognition and sympathy:

•  Intimidation -

this is by black mailing your victims to there silence. By using intimidation as the key to your recognition you leave your victims.

•  Sympathy -

this is where you force them to feel inferior to you by having them plead with you for your sympathy. This could have adverse effects especially if the victim's are in dire need of what you are to provide them with.

•  Attraction -

when I say attraction I mean that this person will do any thing to get your attention they can even use a soft spot they see in you so that there presence can be recognized.